For dominants: The idea of controlling another person’s body as well as mind is what drives dominants. Despite the control aspect, the dominant is responsible for taking care of their sub/slave’s pleasure and well-being before, during, and after playtime.
For submissive or slaves: The idea of giving up full control and being ‘helpless’ can be a huge turn-on for some. They submit themselves fully to their dominant and experience a slew of sexual acts and commands (that they’ve given consent to) such as edging, forced orgasms, chastity, and more.
But in a huge plot twist, it is the sub or slave that has all the power. This is because it is their consent that controls what the dominant will or won’t do (along with a safe word).
