Beginners Guide to Buying Your First Sex Toy.

Jump back to twenty years ago; sex toys were a taboo topic. While they were most definitely still around and available (and hidden in more bedrooms than many would admit), they were not a hot topic people would openly speak about or write about. However, today’s modern times have helped more people understand sex, foreplay, and sex toy play, which has made sex toys less taboo than ever before. People of all ages and genders are discovering new ways to feel pleasure in the bedroom, and they love it, even if they are flying solo! Pink’s song “It’s just you are your hand tonight” isn’t so bad, especially if you have a sex toy in one of them!

With sexual wellness searches up by 123% across the world last year, there is a noticeable surge in the sex toy market. With so many different sex toys to choose from, purchasing your first toy as a beginner may be daunting. That’s where we step in to help you with our beginner’s guide to sex toys.

Which Type of Sex Toy is Best for Beginners?

So, you are ready to discover a whole new world of sexual pleasure – and quite possibly rediscover your own body and what turns it on? Being ready and comfortable is the first big step – well done! As soon as you are ready, you can start shopping. Sex toys offer a variety of different sensations, and there’s plenty to choose from depending on what you are looking for. However, you may not know what you should be looking for as a beginner. Below are some of the most popular sex toys for newbies and are considered a great start:

Bullet Vibrators

Small but mighty, bullet vibrators are the perfect sex toy for beginners. In fact, many consider them a sex toy staple, whether they are new to toys or a pro. Their small size makes them less intimidating, while other benefits include being discreet, inexpensive, and easy to use and clean. Because of their shape, they’re great for really precise stimulation while focusing vibrations exactly where you want them most. They make discovery and exploration easy as you run your bullet over your clitoris, vulva, anal area, and even over your nipples. No penetration is necessary with the bullet vibrator, making it friendlier for those who aren’t too sure about penetrative sex toys just yet. Better still, the orgasms are amazing with this external sex toy. Find the right spot, and thank us later!

Clitoral Stimulators

A key factor in deciding on your first sex toy is to determine what stimulation you enjoy and if you are ready for internal penetration or if you want to keep it to external play first. For instance, during masturbation or foreplay with your partner, does clitoral stimulation get your thighs shaking? If that is a yes, then start with a sex toy that hits precisely that spot and look for a clitoral stimulator. They are compact devices that target the namesake area for non-penetrative pleasure and are great for couples’ use or alone time. In fact, the stats say that around 96% of people with vaginas need external clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so this should definitely be a toy you add to your cart if you are a beginner. Best Clitoral Suction Vibrators in Australia 2023

Dildos

If you are ready for a penetrative toy, then dildos are an excellent start for beginners. There is no confusion with buttons and settings, and they can be enjoyed by any gender, alone, or with a partner. They are straightforward to use, and with some lube, you can enjoy taking a dildo in at your own pace. However, like all sex toys, it is best to build up the size slowly. When purchasing your very first dildo, you should always check the length and girth first, starting with smaller dildos and gradually building up your comfort to larger ones. If you are hoping to enjoy hands-free play, look for a dildo with a suction cup. Once you have the confidence, then you can look at vibrating dildos. Best Dildos in Australia for 2023

Anal Sex Toys

If you are hoping to try out some booty play (because even anal sex isn’t taboo like it used to be), then start with a butt plug. There are thousands of pleasurable nerve endings in the anal area, and stimulating them creates a sensation like no other – don’t judge some anal play until you have tried it – chances are that you will love it and wonder why you haven’t given it a chance before. Don’t forget the lube, though; the anus isn’t naturally lubricating, so grab some lube before penetrating that region with anything. A butt plug helps introduce the sensation of anal penetration and is an easy way of getting comfortable with anal sex toys.

Beginners can start experimenting with a small butt plug by starting with some stimulation around the anal opening and then gradually inserting it into the anus. Close your eyes and relax; you are about to be mind blown! Once you are trembling with the excitement from a small butt plug, you can start with larger butt plugs and even those that vibrate. The Best Butt Plugs for Women in Australia in 2023

Choosing the Best Sex Toy

So, now you know what types of sex toys are a great start for beginners – but you may realise that are loads of different types of bullet vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, and lubricants. Ah oh! As we mentioned, start small – look for small toys rather than finding the largest, thickest dildo or butt plug.

Then look for toys that are:

• Easy to clean (non-porous sex toys are the easiest to clean).
• Easy to use (in the beginning, the fewer buttons, and functions, the better).
• Reputable – buy your sex toys from a high-quality sex store – and if you are shy, then purchase online from a reputable Online Adult Store
• Budget-friendly.

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